"The ideal thing would be to have our heart in our skull and our brain in our chest. That way, we would think with love and love with wisdom."
-Anonymous

Thursday, April 17, 2014

Soul Mate

"If a couple doesn't argue, it is because there is no love." 

I never thought I would ever see so many lies in just one sentence. If it's the right person, that soul mate, the right person, there should be no reasons to argue. Some silly little fights may happen but not an argument.
That sentence is an excuse used by the vast majority of people to believe that their arguments with their couples are normal, that it is just part of their daily life. An excuse to believe that the "love" they feel is true. And it may be true, but it is not healthy.
Sometimes we should stop and think and say to ourselves: "I love this person that I am with. But is it worthy to argue so much? Is it worthy to suffer this much so that he (or she) can be happy?" It may sound selfish; it's true that to get to happiness, we have to suffer before. And that sometimes we have to do some sacrifices to see that person we care so much about, happy. But everything has a limit.

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